Ok, so the days are ticking down. Pretty much, I'm waiting on my lawyer to get her butt in gear and get a counter-counter offer to Cody. If he wants to keep everything, he's gonna pay me my half of it, by golly. I think once we get that settled on, we'll be divorced since our 60 days have run. I've asked Cody twice to at least TRY to work on things. He won't entertain the idea.
So here's my 2 cents on divorce: IT SUCKS! It's painful. Don't do it if you can avoid it! Today's church is WAAAAAAY too accepting of it. Cody sits his butt in church but absolutely ignores God's word on divorce....but no one will direct him on it because they're "afraid he'll stop coming." One of the articles I read said that research shows that the divorce rate in Atheists & Agnostics is 3% lower than that of Christians. Hmmmm....I can see that.
What's done is done, though. I'll try to never make the same mistakes again. I have grown very much from this experience...and continue to. Unfortunately, I have lost alot of faith in some things and people. Fortunately, though, my faith in God has grown more than I ever could have expected. I think he has just taken the biggest stumbling block out of my life.
SO! I'll continue twiddling my thumbs, waiting for a divorce settlement so that I can get rid of this last name to put on my diploma.
